Saturday, February 07, 2004

Top 10 flirting tips

10. Flirting is all about attitude. A good flirt is self-confident and not
afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic, open and positive. It works!

9. Start a conversation. The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about
the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, make a joke, state an
opinion. Make sure you are calm and composed but just do it before the
person you've got your eye on walks out of the bar or passed you in the
street, never to be seen again!

8. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your
vulnerability.

7. Use props. Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural
conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be
compelled to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual
jewelry, a fabulous scent, a distinctive bag from your favorite store or an
interesting book or newspaper.

6. Be the host. Change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are
not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

5. Make the first move. Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say
hello! You can move closer to your perfect match online right now by
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4. Listen. You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice
as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be
drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.

3. Eye contact. Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye
gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don't stare – it's a
turn off.

2. Compliment. Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have
the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed
them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When
you receive a compliment the best response is merely to say Thank You!

1. Smile. It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A
smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people
magnet. Try it!

2 comments:

Rene said...

Flirting is a great way of passing some good time, and you also get to have a nice time with the guy without committing yourself.

Rene said...

Flirting is a great way of passing some good time, and you also get to have a nice time with the guy without committing yourself to him.